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This one love of attraction myth. If you believe it will derail your progress, often leave you very frustrated and irritated with this entire process of attracting in what you want and leave you in a spot of hopelessness. So in today's video, we're gonna be talking about changing that. Stay tuned.

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Hey, Scott Houk here, and welcome into today's video about a love attraction myth that I want to talk about today. And I want you to listen to this video from beginning to end. Because if you really get what I'm talking about here, you're going to feel a lot more liberated. You're gonna feel this process of manifesting in what you want. It's easier than you think it is. And there's a lot more simple steps that come with the ideas, essentially opposite to this myth. So this idea of love, traction, manifestation, this myth that we're gonna be talking about is that we control basically what comes into our life. I had a client the other day, it was actually maybe a month and a half ago now. It's a very important topic he asked about and he said, I've been studying for a long time personal development, manifestation, law of attraction.

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And essentially I walk day to day feeling as if I'm a creator. I do understand the laws of attraction. I understand and believe in the infinite. I believe in this energy work. I am living it. I feel like I've been able to elevate myself into a higher plane. But I struggle because on the physical plane, I am expecting good things happen. I'm expecting money, I'm ex expecting abundance, yet things aren't happening according to my expectations. That's a very real world client example that I'm working with one-on-one with this individual and and client. And it dawned upon me that this is a major obstacle for most people. And it was for me at one point in my life as well. With all the love of attraction videos out there and all the manifestation videos, sometimes this perceives that as long as we are thinking about what we want and you're constantly only thinking about that thing, you're gonna get what you want.

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And as long as you're expecting abundance, it's going to come to you. And that's just not exactly how this stuff works. So the trap for him was, he was starting to get really frustrated. He knew this information he's been studying. He was only my, my client for about four weeks or so, and then he asked that question. So we are just digging into our depth of energetics and all the stuff that we do in our mentorship. But up until that point, he was a great student. He had studied a lot of the YouTube videos out there, a lot of self-help books, a lot of audio books, all that, all that stuff. And he was starting to really evolve himself and ascend and really get to a higher level of consciousness. But from all those teachings, he felt like as long as he was expecting something to happen, he was in control of everything that was going on in his life and what would come into his life as if like he was a living God dictating on how things were going to happen in his life.

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Alright, this thing's going to happen to me. Only this positive circumstance. No obstacles. I'm expecting abundance. So I'm just gonna receive an extra $50,000, for example, out of the blue today. Those kinds of things. So it felt as if manif, when it, when it comes down to law of traction, manifestation, I'm in control of everything, right? And it's just not that, that's not how that this works. It's process. And it's not the factual reality that we live in. So it got him really frustrated because he feels like I'm doing so good mentally and spiritually, but, and I'm expecting good things, but they're not happening. So what's going on here? What's this disconnect that I'm feeling on a daily basis that I'm seeing also in my physical reality? Okay, the other side to this, what I was teaching him is we're not really in control of that much.

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There's a great saying at a plant medicines resorts that I had gone to for doing plant medicine. And they said nothing is in in control. The whole quote was, relax, nothing is in control. Okay? Because really the fact of the matter is we're not really in control of nearly anything in this reality. And that scares us a lot. That's why a lot of us grip certainty, meaning to know how things are gonna happen, when they're gonna happen, all those different things. The timeline of how things are gonna play out. And we get into this spiral idea of control, but really we're not in control of that much. The only thing that we're really in control of our is our awareness of the moment to moment things that are going on in our own thoughts or feelings or actions. And then even outside of that, where we feel like we're in control of our life, we're not really in control at all.

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It's almost all automatic subconscious programming and behavior, plus all of the different things coming into our life. We're not really in control of. You're not in control of how anything happens on the outside plane, really. You're not control of how tall that tree grows. Even if you think it, you're not in control of how all these other people are living their lives. Whether it's your family, your friends, your neighbors, your people you know around you, you're not in control of the weather, you're not in control of the marketplace, you're not in control of the government, you're not in. There's, there's so many things that we're not in control of. Now, people will argue those points. I get it. People will argue those points that, well, if I'm thinking something, I'm going to influence it, I can change it. And that is absolutely true in a, in a different style that there are people in control.

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Like for example, certain celebrity figures or government figures or leaders in power, they do have some sort of control, right? They put laws and rules and out there and things. So people will argue the point of control. But we're not really getting into that dilemma right now. What we're talking about is when it comes to manifesting your desires in, there's not that much you control. You wanna be more in the side of not guessing how it's gonna come in. So here's what I used to do. I used to run a business where I have lots of clients and I would say, this prospect is the right one for my program. I know it. They need it, they want it. I know they're going to enroll. So I would even visualize them enrolling. I would see them enrolling. I would see them signing the the terms.

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I would see them doing the payment, whatever that looks like. But I would see that exact person and then come to find out the next day they say I can't do it. And internally for me, I was like, what's this disconnect? How did that happen? I'm visualizing it. I'm affirming it. And yet this thing still happens, right? The other way to go about this is go more general and that's all you need to say is tuned into frequency and actually dropping that from the consciousness subconscious mind and being able to tune into a frequency of where you want to go and with your aligned self. I did a video on this last Monday, so check back to our special edition videos where I'll share more input on this or the link above as well. It's coming on the screen. But the idea here is you don't guess who it is, you don't guess, you say tuned in.

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And then somebody who you don't think is going to enroll is going to enroll somebody who are kind of like, if you 50 50, they're going to enroll, they're going to enroll. And that person who you really think is going to enroll, they're not going to see, we're not here as guessers and trying to figure out how this universe or how this energy is going to piece all these things together. We're not here to dictate this circumstance. We're here to dictate how tuned in we are with the energy. We're the pointer of the energy. We're not the actual dictator of all the little pieces of the puzzle that are going to fill in the blank from A to Z. Does that make sense? So essentially like I'm not gonna guess on how much money I'm gonna bring in today. I'm not gonna guess if it's gonna come the money that I want in by Friday.

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Instead, I stay tuned in and allow all of the pieces to fall into place within where I am today to where I'm going. So the difference here is again, what I was teaching my client, going back to my client here is this is in control. What we wanna do is you stay tuned in and allow all these other things to flow through your life and allow the obstacles to become opportunities for your soul to evolve to a higher level than it is right now. What it's becoming. Okay? So we're gonna be talking more about this in future videos. So throw number one into the chat box or the comma box below. If this is something that you'd like more information on, like not trying to control all the aspects of the reality, but instead opening myself up to the flow of life and surrender, letting and allowing essentially to allow all the pieces of the puzzle to flow to me so I'm not dictating how everything is going in my life.

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Cuz that's impossible. What you're doing is dictating the frequency you are fused with to allow all the things to move forward that you wanna move forward. All right? So number one, into the common box below, if you'd like some more information now create some more videos on this and more in-depth process of how you switch from feeling like you're in control to actually feeling out of control with intentionality. Now, most law attraction videos are not talking about that, and that's why they have these crazy titles sometimes. Like do this thing and one day and you know, all these other things. But really what it comes down to is if you can start working more on the spirit plane than the mental plane, you're gonna start to see phenomenal changes moving forward a lot easier. Okay? Because a lot of manifestation out there. I'm just thinking mentally, do my affirmations, do my visualization.

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And yes, those all work and we do teach those. But also the flow of life, the surrendering process, the letting and allowing is just as important and this is the energy field that we wanna work through. Alright? So really important, if you wanna get some more in-depth information, you wanna work one-on-one with me, you want to me or you want me to help you with your energetics, and I can be your energetics mentor and helping you to next space say complete next level, open your life in business to a whole new level. Link the description below and book a call with my team so I can explain more with you. And also, if you're looking to become a teacher of this information, we have a Certified Manifestation coach program where you become certified with us, you teach us information, not from, you know, you're not being a false coach and trying to help people earn a million dollars when you're not earning a million dollars.

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